tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post5972909521442149693..comments2023-10-11T00:29:25.723-07:00Comments on TB's Stories: I failed in my marriageTaylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18301499925059215228noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-51709501071474932792012-11-13T09:13:45.841-08:002012-11-13T09:13:45.841-08:00YOU ARE AMAZING. BEAUTIFUL. LOVING. FUN. SWEET. WI...YOU ARE AMAZING. BEAUTIFUL. LOVING. FUN. SWEET. WITTY. AND BEAUTIFUL. twice - lol. (: Tell yourself that EVER DAY or I will kick your tiny ass. Nobodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05845445711161690445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-79809472729246676152012-10-30T14:07:34.915-07:002012-10-30T14:07:34.915-07:00So sorry lady. But you know, there's tons of u...So sorry lady. But you know, there's tons of us cool ass chicks in Seattle :) Let me know if you need anything.undomestic mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08365939971706663619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-67527829051688745522012-10-30T13:41:06.378-07:002012-10-30T13:41:06.378-07:00So sorry for you but I am amazed by your outlook! ...So sorry for you but I am amazed by your outlook! You definitely will make it through this rough time! There is no better place to get your swag back then Seattle and if you're ever looking for new friends/coffee mates. You can holler at this fan of your blog. :)Chelseahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05645164920147624689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-38028216596522172632012-10-30T08:12:16.186-07:002012-10-30T08:12:16.186-07:00I am so sorry to hear this news but want you to kn...I am so sorry to hear this news but want you to know that you are by no means a failure or a loser.....things happen good and bad and we learn from them and move on. You seem to have a positive attitude about what is next for you and the support from your dad seems to be tremendous which is great. I have followed your blog for awhile (found you through Raven's blog) and just love yoour spunk and personality and know that you will be just fine. Keep your chin up and think of the positive things in your life, I know that doesn't just take the pain away from what is happening but you will get through this and come out on top! <br />P.S. Love the new pic of you on your page...you are stunning!!! Liz/https://www.blogger.com/profile/00018975095617898034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-64669822297135002802012-10-30T07:10:57.512-07:002012-10-30T07:10:57.512-07:00you are not a loser or a failure and do not think ...you are not a loser or a failure and do not think that. It takes more courage to walk away than it does to stay. I came to your blog from Raven's and you have to do what is BEST for you and not care what other people think! {SweetTennesseeBlog}https://www.blogger.com/profile/04055583998397317278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-9595909971824154142012-10-30T06:37:22.712-07:002012-10-30T06:37:22.712-07:00Girlfriend you are very strong! I am here for you ...Girlfriend you are very strong! I am here for you you know this. It breaks my heart to hear you going through this divorce sucks! Need anything dont hesitate to call or txt me! xoxoNikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09841587775033446712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-25346449872085310312012-10-30T05:45:55.754-07:002012-10-30T05:45:55.754-07:00stay strong...I too had a failed marriage at ten m...stay strong...I too had a failed marriage at ten months, but I promise it gets better! Two weeks after the divorce was final, I met the man of my dreams, and we married 2 1/2 years later, and couldn't be happier. We just refer to that first fiasco as the rehersal wedding! What do you do when the person you married doesn't know what it means to be married, nor want to do anything to fix that...you move on. You'll be in my prayers as you start this new journey!Babygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04656715773446704828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-81640350778762242272012-10-30T04:56:08.632-07:002012-10-30T04:56:08.632-07:00So sorry you are going through this, but I was in ...So sorry you are going through this, but I was in your place 3 years ago. I got married on June 27, 2009 and we were legally divorced less than a year later. It's not fun and it's not easy, but you're right - you can live for YOU now and do what you want to do. Living with someone who doesn't want to be a part of that is not living at all. I had to learn that the hard way, but I'm here to tell you that it's ok! Life keeps moving and it looks like you've already seen the positive side - you have learned a lot, I'm sure. I know I did!! <br /><br />And, I got to have my dream wedding, parties, etc, too...and they were so fun. ;) <br /><br />Prayers and hugs to you!!<br /><br />xoJess Nordenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17796766637241130496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-88079325197141717912012-10-30T04:47:15.215-07:002012-10-30T04:47:15.215-07:00Sorry that you are going through this! I know you ...Sorry that you are going through this! I know you wanted to try and work it out, but I guess it is better to know now that he won't be there when the going gets tough! Hang in there! I'm sure there are bigger and better things out there for you. This just opens up the door for them. Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14883089486835538679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-31159561411064848762012-10-29T19:18:32.501-07:002012-10-29T19:18:32.501-07:00Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Hugs to you.Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Hugs to you.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11708857742804062091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-42349046563448092872012-10-29T18:20:06.106-07:002012-10-29T18:20:06.106-07:00Um, Glen Coco? YOU GO, Glen Coco! it takes a stron...Um, Glen Coco? YOU GO, Glen Coco! it takes a strong, bad ass woman to realize they deserve better. (not biased because I consider myself one... woah, cocky bish). But, in all seriousness, I am over here giving you a big HELL YEAH!<br />Whitney Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04423730781273098297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-81032356001415330042012-10-29T15:59:01.275-07:002012-10-29T15:59:01.275-07:00Oh gees... I just came across your blog through Ra...Oh gees... I just came across your blog through Raven's blog. This is such a tough time for you. But you know... you are young and beautiful and you deserve a man that adds to your life, not detracts. And sadly... most men don't change. If he's no good now, he won't be any good tomorrow or next year. My thoughts and prayers are totally with you always! You are already bouncing back and are going to do just fine! And cheers to living with loving parents! I would still be living with my mom if she hadn't moved away three years ago. Lisamarie https://www.blogger.com/profile/10625420457754403806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-33314068677200533342012-10-29T15:56:10.628-07:002012-10-29T15:56:10.628-07:00It's not easy, it's not easy to admit your...It's not easy, it's not easy to admit your relationship didn't work out like you thought that it would. I give you a lot of credit for picking your self up and doing what you think is best. It's not easy but there are great days ahead. You are a strong woman and this in no way makes you a failure. Just makes you understand yourself and what you want from someone. <br /><br />hugs ladyKellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512994606434336161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-89585050182473795482012-10-29T15:46:07.282-07:002012-10-29T15:46:07.282-07:00You are so strong!!! Seriously girl I commend you...You are so strong!!! Seriously girl I commend you after reading this & the post below! Kelly { MessyDirtyHair }https://www.blogger.com/profile/01163815542025463546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-20620902241053910202012-10-29T15:22:56.090-07:002012-10-29T15:22:56.090-07:00Good for you for not settling love. Things do happ...Good for you for not settling love. Things do happen for a reason and I'm so happy to hear you're feeling good about the decision, because you have to take care of you. Huge hugs to you! oxoxoxoKristine@thefoleyfamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07311823149705988541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-50444565293133944732012-10-29T12:34:19.603-07:002012-10-29T12:34:19.603-07:00I'm so sorry girl!!!!
Around this time, I had...I'm so sorry girl!!!!<br /><br />Around this time, I had asked my husband for a divorce. I'll leave out all the details because I'm a posting a comment. He didn't do anything wrong. It was me... just not wanting to try. Luckily, we aren't getting a divorce, and we are going to be together.<br /><br />Anyway.. like I always say, "Everything Happens For a Reason." You may or may not see it now, but there is someone great waiting on you and that will be perfect for you.Whitney @ EHFARhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07574672293112274871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-83098960308197870622012-10-29T11:59:19.548-07:002012-10-29T11:59:19.548-07:00Tons of hugs girl and keep your chin up! Everythin...Tons of hugs girl and keep your chin up! Everything happens for a reason! XoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-12087306621382289472012-10-29T11:46:24.462-07:002012-10-29T11:46:24.462-07:00I've been thinking about you! I am glad that y...I've been thinking about you! I am glad that you are getting back on your feet and standing tall! You deserve to be truely happy! I love our email conversations! Too bad we live across the US from each other! Hey, maybe you need a trip to the south to find a real gentleman! haha~!THECAROLINACOUNTRYGIRLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15356828094351527013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-78372141457709350432012-10-29T10:30:01.489-07:002012-10-29T10:30:01.489-07:00You deserve the best! This is a fresh start for yo...You deserve the best! This is a fresh start for you to be happy and treated how you should be treated. Alana Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10094067119884599538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-45399916232098289142012-10-29T10:04:04.969-07:002012-10-29T10:04:04.969-07:00Praying for you!!! Praying for you!!! Sherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14065164009592057949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-9395598713400543112012-10-29T09:34:16.574-07:002012-10-29T09:34:16.574-07:00girly; you are far from a loser/failure/etc. you a...girly; you are far from a loser/failure/etc. you are amazing, and i think the whole "wedding" thing may have overshadowed the things that were going on in your relationship, i think you are beautiful, and will make it through this all; with your head held high and you dignity. prayers for you are definitely coming, and i know you will be okay after this all. i think you deserve a man who says those vows and MEANS THEM. thats why they are vows! =]<br /><br />you will be fine, you will find a job, and you are "young, fun, and still learning" ;)) love you girl<br /><br />always hereashleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18314429664890680869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-16607306535350915032012-10-29T09:15:15.234-07:002012-10-29T09:15:15.234-07:00You are DEFINITELY not a loser or failure or ANYTH...You are DEFINITELY not a loser or failure or ANYTHING. you tried and tried and ultimately its his LOSS. you are strong, brave, and beautiful and will make it through. no other option!<br /><br />loves you!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15397341574840047818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-46968905578224953452012-10-29T08:56:26.109-07:002012-10-29T08:56:26.109-07:00I just love you!!!!!'I just love you!!!!!'Jenny Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10069494810595145057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-4493565697386388792012-10-29T08:49:20.873-07:002012-10-29T08:49:20.873-07:00Oh my gosh, I missed the first post on this - my l...Oh my gosh, I missed the first post on this - my life has been a little crazy as well! <br /><br />Do NOT feel like a failure, you are not one at all. You are a woman who tried to make a marriage work, but did not feel the feelings were being reciprocated. One of my best friends wanted to end her marriage after about 7 months but was terrified of what people were going to think. We talked a lot about it and the one thing I told her over and over again, was that SHE needed to be happy before anything else - don't stay in a relationship/marriage to show people you are happy or to prevent upsetting your significant other. <br />I'm glad you are taking the steps to ensure your happiness :) praying you find a great job you love! Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12017012695141288353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046939602330091837.post-41042955670651622922012-10-29T08:46:07.164-07:002012-10-29T08:46:07.164-07:00I am so so SO proud of you, Taylor. It took incred...I am so so SO proud of you, Taylor. It took incredible strength and courage to write this post. I'm so happy that you're happier now, and excited to see where life takes you!<br /><br />Catehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03358848978516835312noreply@blogger.com